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Parenting is not easy.

What does a first time parent know about raising a child. NOTHING – you learn as you go which obviously is not very efficient.

When our parents were growing up the house hold used to be much larger. Almost always more than one family was under a roof and even if that wasnt the case for our generation, our parents atleast had lived in households where the young were being taken care of together by the larger family unit.

I am talking about the simple things – how to keep a child from breaking stuff for instance or eat things he picks up from under the carpet?? Do you yell at the child – slap em a few times – try to talk them?? How do you handle children who still cant talk yet?? etc etc

When I was growing up, when my grandmother was still alive, that was a great help to my mother. My younger cousins growing up didnt have that and they are kinda brats if you know what I mean.

I cant say its the parents fault. They got no help – they have to figure it out as they go and thats not easy. Throughout the ages the parents and the grandparents raised the young. The work force now it would seem is cut in half.

Educated and financially well off parents, great people on every account

– but raising children just doesn’t come with a manual.


August 12, 2009 Posted by | Random | 1 Comment

Libido Exists

Too many women try to be the timid little creature men demand them to be – God forbid they ever realize that they have such a thing as libido that God gave them, they’ll magically become sluts!!

I’ll tell you a secret. The power of men – of this society that men control. You know why ‘getting rape’ is referred to so often as ‘izat lotana’ ( roughly translating as disgracing yourself )??

Its because men forbade woman from accepting libido – to the point that all sexual thoughts were considered immoral. But libido exists and you cant deny the sexual drive … so women instead fantasized about rape because then they would have lived up to the moral standards men demand of women.

That is why women are blamed when rape actually occurs. That is why women have been inferior in society for centuries. Men and women are not allowed to be equal – that control has been maintained through conditioning. So fucking brilliantly was this control established that one can hardly even tell what part of being a women is natural and what is the conditioning.

Because women continued to be the timid little creatures men demand them to be – they stayed inferior.

A common mis-conception I’d like to address.

Men arent naturally the bread winners. They are the bread owners. Lemme explain – in pre-historic societies, WOMEN gathered the bulk of the food. The most men did was fought with men of other communities – War!!

Agriculture came and then the women worked the field and the men owned the field ( and still fought men of other communities ).

Women were the actual bread winners for the most part of human history – the problem is that men had them subjected to their will. They appointed themselves leaders when there was no property and owners when that concept was introduced.

Men define what is acceptable and gullible women have for centuries upon centuries have gobbled up the crap we fed them to make sure they stayed subservient.

Come to think of it – if men were able to pull of that trick for so many centuries – maybe we are superior.

So anyway – men and women arent going to equal for quite some time to come.

Not untill the millenniums of conditioning can be undone.

August 9, 2009 Posted by | Random | Leave a comment